Very often sex and intimacy are related; however sex and intimacy aren’t always necessarily synonymous. There are many different types of intimacy, while there can be sexual intimacy, there is also emotional and spiritual intimacy. The word intimacy is very often used where it has no meaning, for example the majority of people are misled into thinking that just because they are enjoying a sexual relationship then they are also having an intimate relationship, while this is far from true.
The people who are in fact experiencing an intimate relationship will be doing so without even probably giving it any thought as to the type of relationship they are having. Intimacy is without a doubt a great factor to have in any relationship but those who don’t experience intimacy have no clue as to what it actually means, the feelings and what it does to the relationship.
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While we all prefer life to be rosy and go the way we want it, invariably it never does and situations crop up which are anything but perfect. We can choose to do two things about it either make the most out of a bad situation and accept it or deal with it the best way we can and then shrug it off and let it go. On the other hand we can choose to worry about it or sulk, grumble and moan and forever go around wondering why this happened and protesting what if.
The fact is that the situation has occurred and no amount of worrying or moaning and groaning about it will change this fact. Looking at it in this light, what point is there in letting it bother you?
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Usually your gut instinct will be the first sign that things are not going well in your relationship, you will feel that something is just not right, that something has changed and it is not for the better. Perhaps these feelings will begin to show as anger and coldness where as before you felt kindness and warmth with your partner, these could be the first signs that something is amiss and the relationship is beginning to fail or it could be nothing more than just a stage in your relationship through which you will pass. So how can you tell which it is? There are other signs that could give you a clue as to if the relationship is doomed or if you will survive, some of the most common signs include:
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